Writing has always been my dream job, but the realities of a writing career are not as pretty as the dream was. In an effort to prepare the future writers out there, here’s an honest look at what I’ve learned these past two years.
- No writing = no money. This one seems fairly straightforward and common sense-y – If you want to keep getting paid, you have to keep putting books out. But sometimes, that’s easier said than done. 2013 was a fantastic year for me. I released 3 books and they all sold well enough that I made more money than I’ve ever made in my life. For the first time ever, I didn’t have to have to drag myself through a day job I hated. But 2014? Not so fantastic. I started fearing the next book. What if it wasn’t as good? What if I let my readers down? What if everyone realizes I have no idea what I’m doing? The doubts got to me and I stalled out, couldn’t seem to put two words together on a page to save my life. And now I’m back to dragging myself to a day job because I let my personal demons get in the way of my dream career. Which brings me to the second thing I learned…
- Starve your personal demons. Ignore reviews. Don’t let them wheedle their way in to your subconscious and make you start to doubt yourself. There are people who troll sites like Goodreads and get their jollies from ripping down authors. Starve your personal demons (and the internet trolls) of the crap they feed on and just write.
- Laugh at one-star reviews. But if you must read reviews (and, yes, I must) then learn to laugh at the snarky one-stars you will enviably get. And remember that for every hater, there will be two more people out there who will love your book.
- Marketing a book is harder than writing it. A lot harder. If there is one part of this job I can truly say I hate, it’s promo. I’ve never been a salesperson and I’m just plain no good at it. I’m always making stupid mistakes, like forgetting to link a tweet back to the book I’m trying to promote, or scheduling my Thunderclap campaign for the wrong day. And #hashtags for #marketing purposes are #sofarbeyondme. But promo is a necessary evil and if you don’t do it, nobody will do it for you.
- Time management is key. Honestly, I’m still working on this one. I always seem to be doing too much of one thing and not enough of another. I still haven’t perfected the balancing act of having one book in edits, another in draft, and another gearing up for release. It’s a never-ending juggling act and you need to find time management techniques that work for you early in your career. (Believe me—this is a must. Not taking time management more seriously is a mistake I’m paying for now. I’m dropping balls left and right and I fear some people *cough* my publicist *cough* think I’m a flake.)
- Less social media is more. I will fully admit to being a social media addict. I find myself on Facebook and Twitter way too often throughout the day. (While writing this post, I’ve checked Twitter three times and FB twice. *sigh*) Writing’s a lonely career and it can be fun to connect with your readers and other writers. Makes it very easy to lose hours in the black hole of social media and before you know it, it’s 11pm and you haven’t written a word. If you find yourself struggling, I suggest using an app like Self Control or Freedom to limit your time on social media. Rescue Time is also great for an overview of how much time you spend doing what each week.
- Maintain a (real) social life. As I said, writing is a lonely career and writers tend to be homebodies by nature. But I can tell you from experience, social media is not enough social interaction. Your creative well will run dry if you shut yourself in your office 24/7 with nobody to talk to but your dog and your characters. Also, you might go a little bit crazy. So schedule time every week to get out of the house and flex those rusty social skills.
- Keep good records. You’ll thank yourself at tax time. Deductions are a writer’s best friend.
So there’s a short list of what I’ve learned. And despite some of the harsher realities of making a living as a writer, I still wouldn’t want to do anything else.
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