posted on January 11, 2018 by Karen Rock

Me, too

Women are speaking up in the #Me,Too movement like never before and the world is taking notice. At last, women’s stories are being listened to and taken seriously. This is truly an extraordinary time. So how does Romance become part of the #Me,Too movement? While some critics claim Romance novels reinforce negative stereotypes, I disagree. No other genre has empowered women, made them front and center in every story, and given them a voice… a voice our readers listen to and respect. In some ways, Romance has been ahead of the #Me,Too movement because women are the heroes in our stories, they are treated with respect and won’t settle for a man who’s unworthy of her love.

Even Alpha male heroes, who are admittedly cocky, commanding and fiercely protective, would never force a woman against her will. They adore the women they love, and God help anyone who disrespects her, something he would never do himself. And should he cross the line, get a bit too high-handed, our strong romance heroines are quick to push back and put down their feet, drawing a line in the sand that even Alpha heroes know not to cross.

To illustrate, here’s an excerpt from my January release, FALLING FOR A COWBOY, (Rocky Mountain Cowboys, Book Two). In this novel, Amberley James, a legally blind former professional barrel-racer, wants to hide from the world after learning of her rare genetic condition. Her best friend, cocky, confident too-handsome-for-his-own good rancher/pro football player, Jared Cade, however, refuses to let her quit. Yes, he pushes her, he coaxes her, he even refuses to let her sell her barrel-racing horse since he owns a fifty percent stake in it. Yet, he never forces her… and eventually, when she decides to give his plan to get her back in the ring again at try, it’s on her terms. When their friendship takes a romantic turn, however, they’re caught by surprise. As you’ll see in this excerpt, despite Jared being a bit of an Alpha, and Amberley’s blindness perhaps making her appear more vulnerable, a damsel in distress, Amberley doesn’t see it that way. She puts Jared in his place and demands a romance on her terms… exactly what Romance novels have always done, especially in this historic, #Me,Too moment.


“Amberley, please,” Jared pleaded, his voice as raw as a bruise. “I’ve got two left feet and a swollen tongue around you lately. Nothing I say or do comes out right. I don’t know if we’re coming or going, but I know I want to find out. Give me a chance.”

He framed her face with his hands then leaned over and kissed her. Thoroughly, sweetly, wonderfully. For a moment, everything stilled: her breath, movement, her heart. The world, possibly.

“No!” She shoved his chest.

“No?” His eyelashes blinked rapidly, brushing against her temple.

“It’s not that easy.” Her breathing slowly returned to normal, though her heart still pumped overtime. “You don’t get to decide when and where and how.”

“But I thought…”

“If you want me, you’re going to have to work for me.” She ducked under his arm and strode forward with her arms reaching for the tree she glimpsed in front of her. She mustn’t stumble or fall. Time to declare her independence. Stand tall. When she reached the tree, she rested her boots on its protruding roots and raised her chin.

Jared advanced. “We care about each other, why make this complicated?”

“Because I deserve to be wooed. Chased. Convinced. And you don’t get to know if you’ll win in the end.”

She didn’t have to see to imagine his mouth dropping open, his brows meeting over his nose. Had a woman ever talked this way to Jared before? She doubted it. Or if they had, he’d have moved on quick.

Well. So be it.

“Woo you?”

She would have laughed at his utter bewilderment if not for the emotion jittering inside. Did Jared even know how to woo a woman? They usually chased him. It’d be interesting to see him try. For the first time since her vision loss, she felt like her old self…no, better than that. She’d been tested by adversity and respected herself now more than she did after winning any of her world championships. Jared, on the other hand, had never had to struggle for a thing in his life and it showed.

“I deserve it,” she continued, “just like any woman.” Her lack of vision didn’t make her less than others.

A tense silence descended and beads of perspiration rose on her forehead as she waited for him to speak. Maybe she’d scared him away…and maybe that wouldn’t be a bad thing, no matter what her aching heart told her. She didn’t need a man who wouldn’t move mountains to win her heart.

“You deserve everything,” he breathed, sliding his fingers down the length of her arm.

“Then show me.”


Do you believe Romance novels empower women or reinforce negative stereotypes? What books have your read that back up your opinion? Please share your thoughts in the comments section to enter to win an autographed print copy of CHRISTMAS AT CADE RANCH (Rocky Mountain Cowboys, Book One, available now) or a copy of BAD BOY RANCHER (Rocky Mountain Cowboys, Book Three- available in Feb)

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Karen Rock

Karen Rock

Award-winning author Karen Rock is both sweet and spicy—at least when it comes to her writing! The author of both YA and adult contemporary books writes sexy suspense novels and small-town romances for Harlequin and Kensington publishing. A strong believer in Happily-Ever-After, Karen loves creating unforgettable stories that leave her readers with a smile. When she’s not writing, Karen is an avid reader who also loves cooking her grandmother’s Italian recipes, baking, and having the Adirondack Park wilderness as her backyard, where she lives with her husband, daughter, dog and cat who keep her life interesting and complete. Learn more about her at or follow her on twitter at

3 thoughts on “Me, too”

  1. Avatar Kay Garrett says:

    I think both men and woman can be the strong one or better yet work together as a team in a romance to become one extremely strong unit. I do love when one (either boy or girl) is shown by the other just how strong they are without even knowing it. True love is a support system but not just someone to prop you up. 🙂 No one can survive completely with a “me” only attitude. That’s why it’s called #MeToo as in you add to me – adding the love for the empty spaces in my heart. Like the saying goes – no man (or woman) is an island. We need companionship and love in our lives to make us whole.

    Absolutely love Karen Rock’s books because they have this great balance. I’ve read CHRISTMAS AT CADE RANCH (Rocky Mountain Cowboys, Book One) and it’s a prime example of a wonderful book with great balance of the #MEtoo.

    It would thrill me beyond words to be the very fortunate one selected. I’d LOVE to get the BAD BOY RANCHER (Rocky Mountain Cowboys, Book Three) and I know it’ll be well worth the wait.

  2. Avatar bn100 says:

    depends on the book

  3. Avatar Laurajj says:

    I think they can do a little of both…but what I love most is the joy and hope that each romance brings! Fills your heart with hope and love!

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