posted on December 3, 2018 by Peggy Doviak

Don’t Let Finances Make You a Humbug!

by Peggy Doviak, CFP®

Do you approach the holidays with a “Ho, ho, ho,” or a “Bah, humbug”? No doubt December can be a stressful month. It seems like the time between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Eve is a nonstop cycle of events, expectations, and expenses. But you can break that cycle. This year, give yourself the present of actually enjoying the holidays. A great place to begin is by gaining control of your spending.

I’m not going to be a Scrooge and tell you not to give gifts. That custom is gaining in popularity, and if it works for you and your family, that’s great. Still, most people purchase presents, and with a little planning, you can save quite a bit of money.

Begin by creating a shopping list. The stores are designed to encourage impulse buying. Honestly, that might be one of my biggest spending flaws. I see a treasure at the end of the shelf, and I want it! Don’t be like me! Instead, create a list in advance. To help myself, I use a phone app that lets me add people and gifts on the spot. Then, when I make the purchase, I cross it off.

Once you have your list, start shopping far enough in advance that you can compare prices. Again, phone apps can help with that, or you can check out several store prices online or in person. Also, see if there are any coupons available. An extra 10% or 20% discount really adds up over several purchases.

When you are trying to buy gifts for children and teens, don’t rush out to buy something just because they mention it once. Kids are notoriously bad for wanting something new every week. Rather than making a purchase the first time they mention an item, listen for patterns, and maybe even ask them outright what they really want. You might prefer your gift to be less of a surprise and more of what they want.

Additionally, don’t feel compelled to purchase presents you really can’t afford. Explain to your children or grandchildren that your family has lots of love but not necessarily lots of money. It’s okay—don’t beat yourself up! The worst thing you can do is begin to encourage children to have unrealistic financial expectations. Remember, they will always know someone who has more money than they do.

Once you have purchased your gifts, total up the price. Then, next year, try to save one tenth of that amount each month. That way, by Halloween, you will have your holiday finances in order, and you can look forward to the season without dreading bills that come in January.

Finally, remember that the real meaning of the holidays doesn’t involve spending money. We all crave love, and we all need time. Dust off some family holiday traditions that have fallen away. At least pull out your cellphones, look at your calendars, and find time to have dinner together. If money’s tight, top off the meal with a drive to look at Christmas lights or a killer round of your favorite board game. I promise you that the memories you make together will be what brings everyone joy in years to come. And like Scrooge, you will honor the spirit of the holidays in your heart and keep it all year.


Peggy Doviak

Peggy Doviak

When Peggy Doviak’s mother got taken to the cleaners by an unscrupulous stock broker, Peggy got mad. She was so angry that she changed careers from corporate training to financial planning because she wanted to ensure that what happened to her mother never happened to anyone else. She has been committed to putting her clients first through a fiduciary relationship from the first day, not even knowing then that her position was optional and unpopular to many so-called financial advisers. But she’s learned a lot. She earned her CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNERTM practitioner designation and went on to earn a Master’s in Finance with an emphasis in Financial Analysis even though she already had a Ph.D. in education. Active in her profession, Peggy works with financial literacy organizations, hosts a Knowledge Circle for the Financial Planning Association, writes a column for the Journal of Financial Planning, and is a member of the Women in Finance (WIN) Initiative of the CFP Board. She is a consumer advocate for fair financial practices both locally and nationally through her membership on the Legislative and Regulatory Issues Committee of FPA, and she enjoys meeting with lawmakers in Washington, DC. However, perhaps Peggy’s greatest shaping of the profession has come through staying in education. She has taught literally thousands of financial advisers in classes covering advanced certifications, the preparatory curriculum for the CFP exam, and master’s level courses in financial planning. Although Peggy Doviak can’t keep every consumer safe, she keeps trying.

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One thought on “Don’t Let Finances Make You a Humbug!”

  1. Avatar Rebecca HJ, says:

    I believe that every adult should be able to manage their finances. And especially this is a very important skill during the holidays, since a large amount of money will be spent on gifts for family and friends. Thank you for sharing such useful and interesting tips.

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