Shall We Dance?

It begins in junior high. The lights dim, the music slows, and suddenly the seventh grade dance turns into a place fraught with tension as hopeful romantics wonder if they’ll be asked to take a turn out on the floor. From that night forward, we understand the potential of a dance. It’s more than just swaying to the latest Adele song or spinning off into a waltz. A dance has long been synonymous with romance.
I’ve been thinking about the dance in romance lately. It’s been an ongoing theme in my Facebook posts for the last week. If you want to see some highlights of great cinematic dances, visit my page. There are also some memorable dances in fiction. Jane Austen made the most of country dances and formal balls to bring her characters together, and fortunately those scenes captured the imaginations of the directors who brought them to the big screen. Keira Knightley’s Elizabeth Bennett is spot-on in this version of Pride and Prejudice. There’s a memorable moment in Emma, as well. 
As a writer, I love a dance scene for the immediate intimacy. The whole rest of the room falls away, no matter how many other people are floating in the background of a scene. When the music begins, you have a precious window of time for an exchange between the hero and heroine, whether it’s a tense whisper of secrets or a halting revelation of deeper feelings. In a contemporary novel, a dance is a great way to escape the crowd and get to know each other. In a historical novel, a dance is one of the few ways a couple can share private words and touches.
I’m glad to see the dance scene preserved in Young Adult novels and films. I recently read Heather Dixon’s Entwined and was enchanted by the dance scenes. Edward and Bella dance. Harry and Hermione do too, although that scene was unique to the film, wasn’t it? Dance is a way to show affection, a way to celebrate a moment or- my personal favorite- a gateway to romance.
I hope you’ll join me on Facebook this week to keep up to date on some memorable film dances. From Picnic to A Knight’s Tale, I’m chatting about them all! I’d love to hear about dance scenes you love in film, whether it’s a romantic movie or a big, showstopping number like “Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend”… let me know here or on Facebook and I’ll give one commenter a copy of my upcoming Blaze, FULL SURRENDER.
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HER MAN ADVANTAGE, Blaze 5/12
FULL SURRENDER, Blaze 9/12
Dance!
I love a good dance scene, Joanne! I remember one from Silk Stockings with Cyd Charisse that was so lovely! There's something about the movement in dance that is such a pleasure to watch! Congrats on Full Surrender--that's a great cover!
Cyd
I watched so many scenes with Fred Astaire and various partners while hunting for clips for my Facebook page. I was so entertained! From Cyd to Rita, Fred danced with the best. I think Dancing with the Stars needs a tribute show or two!
HER MAN ADVANTAGE, Blaze 5/12
FULL SURRENDER, Blaze 9/12
Love the dance scenes
Hi Joanee, I love a good dance scene too. The ones you've shown on your blog are some of my faves. I tear up every time Maria and Capt. von Trapp do that waltz. You are right, dancing is such an emotional interaction between two people. I love the ones in historicals when the H, the rake of course, gets the h in his clutches so that he could whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Post dance comes the walk in the gardens...love it! In today's books, it is a great way to ramp up the sexual tension for sure. I look forward to see what else you post re: dances on FB.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
The blush
Hi Paula! It's so memorable when she blushes, isn't it? A brilliant example of what good acting can do for a story. So much is conveyed without words!
HER MAN ADVANTAGE, Blaze 5/12
FULL SURRENDER, Blaze 9/12
Julie Andrews
She is just amazing. Great acting certainly makes a scene that much better in poignant moments.
Peace and love,
Paula R.